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WHY TO BE YOU ?

 Once someone asked me to put myself in their shoes ! I never understood it so deeply before but now I know I’m sharing that here ,


 Don’t put yourself in someone’s shoes because

 you are being you won’t change the fact ,

instead think of the situation and try to come up with a best solution. 

When you’re putting yourself in someone’s shoes you will definitely notice more of their negatives rather than positives  and that negative part will make you feel low  or make you pity them , that’s something worst you can ever do – to pity someone’s boundaries! 

That’s why always try to understand and come up with a solution you can .

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