Melodramiac

 

  We met by an Obelisk, His eyes staring mine,my dupatta wavered , a simple conversation started with a dance offer, Eyes rolled, balance worked and the wind was smoother than ever . Date? No,no ! we went by hawkers, tasted the spices of streets, sweets and drinks of bazaar! Daytime stalls and small shoppings, She sipped the chai from plate , Haul her hairs soflty from the front, helping her wear jhumka  . Sharing the best garden seat with someone for the first time. A day out finally to visit each others memories , to visit each others haven, to visit a place where  she buried her memories . And that's how we ended Sharing sorrows after smiles . From  - Bandish Bandits 

  We tag humans under something particular to know or identify them like we call mom or friend , that’s something we have been told to tag them with ,but sometimes it’s is hard to distinguish between your feelings , experiences and the person in front of you . We might pretend or try to tag them but it’s still not comfortable or convincing for us , what do we do now?  Why don’t we see humans as a single personality ? Why not just instead of tagging them with some unusual tags, let’s be straight to the point about how we feel about them and what we are comfortable with! .  We are all humans after all , we can live under an undefined relationship too , it’s okay to do that until we realize some borders or limits . If it’s what makes you happy then don’t ruin it because of some tags which doesn’t define you’re feelings. (The above is especially for those who are in an uncomfortable or uneasy terms with their  step moms ,dads , bestfriends /friends , someone you want to ...

 Reciprocating someone’s feelings !                                                                                                        What Do you think it’s easy to reciprocate?  Do you think you’re being rude or cool by not reciprocating? Or do you plan to pretend that you’re reciprocating just to make that person stay with you or something that’s not worth those feelings ?  Have you wondered what if the villian of the story joins hero /protagonist for a good cause , wouldn’t the world in the story will become more worthy , more trustful and better than before ? But still we see on the other hand destruction also teaches you management, measures , prevention, cures and reason to move on .  Just like t...

 Far far away in the countryside, there lived an ugly looking boy who was abandoned by everyone who knew him , even his parents left him . He travelled the mountains, lakes, deserts to accept *who he was * but wherever he went he wasn’t able to satisfy himself, console himself.  One stormy night the boy was passing through the woods along the country-side road. An old witch who lived there was driven towards him due to his weak soul. The witch agreed to take away the boy’s Ugliness, sadness, nightmares and all other  emotions that troubled him, the boy became emotionless. Years passed by, days passed by and the boy  grew into a man.  A  stormy night, the witch appeared again and returned the boy all his troubles. The boy was unable to handle all the emotions and troubles and rushed to the witch in the woods, the witch denied to help the boy this time and said ;  “ YOU SHOULD HAVE HANDLED YOUR TROUBLES YOURSELF RATHER THAN LEANING ON SOMEONE, YOU S...

  Let's sit together Let's talk about things never gonna happen, Let's sip coffee together and recall how terrible we cook . Let's just forget stress and make  a sand castle - collect stones .       Let's talk about how bored we are . Let's sit and imagine the places we cannot go . Let's listen that your -mine old favorite songs . Let's talk about the characters you like . Let's complain .  Let's chat , let's joke ,  and count on  each other. -Trisha Raha 

 Not feeling sexually attracted to someone unless you’re emotionally attached to them is also a formal decent and healthy sign for falling in love. The best form of expressing love comes from being yourself, being patient, putting effort and support, caring, the little slow steps satisfies you, comforts you when need. Don’t worry about the right time it arrives all of sudden but finding it will make it harder.  You don’t need to become a book lover gamer, player, someone best, rich, etc to get the right person or time.  They will come to you anyhow just be the best version of you. As I said earlier, being constant to someone or something is the loveliest but the hardest part too.  Intimacy doesn’t only exist in physical contact but crying together, whispering every small secret, wondering how we grew up , what we were scared of, what you hated earlier and now, visiting memories of childhood, the places we used to hang out when we were small, the places our teenage...

 In my opinion, It’s a Link between you and something or someone precious to you, your yearning for it,  in its absence,  something or someone you want to keep close to you, you cherish your feelings for it. You outstand for it, endure because of it, want to express how valuable it is.  Romance is just not for someone it can also for something like a place, memories, person, food,  hobbies etc. That’s how romance should be.  When you’ll fall  in love with someone  your eyes , your heart will speak more than your mouth. Keeping that love always alive is the hardest part and the feeling of parting and losing your loved ones will make you the weakest even if you aren’t sick you  will feel so. (A HUMAN’S TRUE FEELING IS LIKE SICKNESS, NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU DENY IT, WANT IT TO GO AWAY, STOP IT, IT WILL ONLY LEAVE AFTER YOU GO THROUGH A RELEVANT  PAIN BECAUSE OF IT OR AFTER YOU’RE HURT BECAUSE OF IT AND THEN IT LEAVES A SCAR OF ITS MEMORY BEH...

 How are your relations with your family right now? Are you sure they are doing great ? How much do you care about them? Do you feel happy being with them ?  Have you ever sacrificed something for your family without letting them know? Hold on...is that a yes ? So how did  you felt ? Do you know in this billion of populations many children don’t get the chance to enjoy or live with both the parents together, or might their family is diverse, low understanding, adjustments and break-offs or something that we even can’t guess of.  If you’re reading this just think of any five ,six positive points about your family or your life and stay happy with whatever you’re blessed with . I wish when you make a  family , you will be able to fill up all the shattered crumbs you dreamed off about a family. 

 Have you  noticed cats using their  self defense mechanism  when anyone or anything tries to hurt it , every animal has some kind of shield to protect themselves from getting hurt. What about humans ?  We humans if somehow manage to put on a physical shield, we lose to keep up our mental or psychological shield that ends up hurting ourselves, while books and world have been telling us constantly Not to trust someone easily , Not to lose your strength, Not to get disappointed , etc .But how? How should we , none explains that !  People won’t hurt you until you let them ! You let them break that shield in you and reach your weak point , so there you get broken again again.. Its correct that we should not trust someone easily but if you’re not good judge of others characters or personality then wait for the right moment rather than taking a step that you might regret .

 What is the heaviest thing for you (according to you)? Considering living beings everyone has something heavy to carry on within their lifetime,  that may be psychological, psychological or physical weight.  For me, the heaviest weight in my life is knowing people’s opinion and judgements on me,  that nor can be lifted neither be erased from minds. The best weight I can lose is the weight of peoples non-curious opinion on me, the weight of them imposing their comments, their judgements over me.  If you feel like the same and is burdened with it or frustrated I won’t say to believe in yourself like a lame because after all  we are humans after all and can make mistakes too.  But yes just believe in anything that your gut prefers at first even if that is the MCQ in the exam. That first gut feeling is rarely wrong. People have been running with the rumors',  used to things but feeling few follow new trends and very rare people think out of the box a...

 Once someone asked me to put myself in their shoes ! I never understood it so deeply before but now I know I’m sharing that here ,  Don’t put yourself in someone’s shoes because  you are being you won’t change the fact , instead think of the situation and try to come up with a best solution.  When you’re putting yourself in someone’s shoes you will definitely notice more of their negatives rather than positives  and that negative part will make you feel low  or make you pity them , that’s something worst you can ever do – to pity someone’s boundaries!  That’s why always try to understand and come up with a solution you can .

  And   She said   : Lets run to an Era where.. I can picture a world with you,  among billions of presence , billions of histories, we can make still make new memories , Where I can just look at you and sleep with the calmness , just not through this phone screen with sore eyes but I wish one day my hologram can hug you back when you feel  sad , my feelings may stay here my body may remain but I want a world where  I can erase the miles,  where miles don't feel like just like a spin of  real presence your feelings reach me Today, Tomorrow and Forever  An Era where seasons matters more than distance , where I can argue without hesitating to lose you through texts , where everyone can be their real selves . that's how we endure and look at the * One day * to erase the miles between us. 

 All I know is that, Ever since we were kids life wasn’t this complicated. We were so free that we cried, cracked up and just like that we were a free soul with no worries, none judged , no responsibilities . But when you start to realize that crying makes you appear alive not weak, it’s okay to cry ,when you want, it’s good to be righteous in the world even if you become an outcast you will stay the real you, it might be late my friend, but not too late. When we grew up the world changed like a 360 shift at once. Life grew tough and we adjusted to being tough her, pretending to be okay with everything. People around us judging us to some extent, are still desperate to judge our wrongs. The things we want people to remember us for are no longer considered. At some point, we learn to love the moment more than the peoples and sometimes we never realize the value of the moments until they are gone. The memories of the lingering moment faded . Now, We want to be perfect so that we can ...

Will you believe me if say , there is still a child in you ?     I know that there’s still a child in whether you express or cover but in certain sphere you come to meet yourself and you even question yourself like, “What am I doing ?” Don’t let it break , let the child stay , dont make it go away just because the world will judge you or people will talk , let it live because none cares what you do , what you’ve been through , and those who cares preserve them and believe me they care about you they are not wrong , perhaps if they are wrong you will realize soon or before just don’t disbalance you’re love towards yourself . Try to understand yourself, know and love yourself first . You deserve to be adored . If you’re 60 and you still like chocolates ,say it ! have it . If you’re a hot shot older guy interested in makeups or quite nerder for toys and older to be intrested in games , stuffs , etc . JUST GO DUDE ! DO WHATEVER YOU MISSED EARLIER , YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO DO SO , YO...

  The world is as diverse as atoms in the Universe. Life goes on like everything was yesterday and upcoming tomorrow seems like very long yet to come. Humans are special for making relations like families, relatives, friends, etc. The path of relations follows love, misunderstanding , ups and downs , honesty-dishonesty ,breaking and growing. We might judge people sometimes very early . But there is this person whether one or two , however far they are but they are close to us . We come to believe in their very existence for us , a beautiful hope for us just like a child grows by falling again and again, crying he falls but when the child grows up he stops crying just to look older, stronger in front of parents and eventually the parents cheering makes him endure more, learn better just like believing in their existence , being good to parents the child grows to a man and woman , taking further responsibilities . -Trisha Raha 

 TIME CHANGED, WE CHANGED, WE GREW, WORLD CHANGED BUT THE FEELING OF OLD DAYS ARE STILL PRESERVED AS IF IT WAS YESTERDAY, THAT’S WHAT WE START TO MISS BUT CANNOT EXPRESS! IT’S OKAY TO BE MISERABLE SOMETIMES!

 They say;  The longer you stay the stronger the bond,  maybe it’s true.  They say everyone needs someone to ask  “ How was their day? every day” But the truth is when time is less and moments are more it is hard to forget,  even if you’re miles and years away somewhere.  Although we forget to preserve the small moments but  if the person is very precious you will realise how important every moment is. When you’re someone older or someone struggling bit more than others ,  you adjust to listen to them ,  you don’t neglect or diverge it beacuse maybe you can realize something more beautiful than what you already know. If we belive ,  Rose will never wilt. Maybe you won’t forget anything.